Janet (Kinney) Ortquist

Janet M. Ortquist, 87, passed away peacefully at home on Friday, February 21, 2020, surrounded by her family.

She was the second of three daughters born to loving parents Reverend Delbert and Clara Kinney. She graduated from Clifton High school in Clifton NJ and obtained her Bachelor’s degree in Sociology and Psychology from Hope college in Holland, Michigan. She met and married her late husband Reverend Milton R. Ortquist while attending Hope College. She obtained a Master’s degree in Education from the University of Connecticut. She was a Home and Careers teacher with the Beacon School District from 1972 to 1996. She also was the organist, Sunday school teacher and choir director at the Beacon Reformed Church from 1966 to 1985.

She is survived by her six children, fourteen grandchildren and thirteen great grandchildren.

A Private Celebration of Janet’s Life will be scheduled at a late date due to the COVID-19 restrictions. Arrangements were entrusted to the care of LIBBY FUNERAL & CREMATION SERVICES; to offer a message of condolence or share a memory, please visit: www.libbyfuneralhome.com

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  1. Evan Ortquist says:

    When I was about 10 years old Mom was invited to a church dinner party. Coming out of her closet in her bedroom at Ferry st. She asked me how she looked in a denim blue and white dress that strapped around her neck. I remember thinking that she was the most beautiful mom in the world and convinced her to wear it to the party.
    About the same time my bike was stolen from me at St Andrews basketball court. I came home and told Mom who was in the front yard of 50 Ferry st. She said, eye bulging, with no hesitation “where”! Get in the car! She tore off to cliff st . When she saw the Teenager on my bike she screeched on the brakes, jumped out of the car while it was still moving, running and screaming like a mother goose protecting its young, yelling at the kid to get off that bike! The kid was so shocked he dropped the bike and ran for his life. That was pretty beautiful too!

  2. Brynne Love says:

    From Eddie Williams of Beacon NY: Our condolences go out to you and your family. Your mom’s passing allows me to reflect on the impact she had on the world. She is forever in the hearts of everyone who was graced by her presence. If it wasn’t for her and your family I may have never met Jesus. I received him at age 27 but I met him through your mom your dad and your family as a teenage boy. The example of Christ was evident in her singing, sharing, giving, forgiving and mercy. I’m truly grateful for that. The Lord allowed me the chance be blessed by her. In our writing over the year she had informed me that she was questioning her self as to winning souls for Christ. On that day she received a letter from me telling her the if it was not for her and her family I wouldn’t have met Jesus. Praise the Lord for the life she lived. She is truly at peace now.
    Eddie Williams

  3. Mildred Grant-Williams says:

    Thank you for making a difference in my life. Your kindness, patience and gentle spirit will always be remembered.

  4. Michael J. Love says:

    When I first met Mother Ortquist in August 2002, I was immediately touched by her winsome, kind and radiant disposition. She had this way of disarming you and walking ever sweetly into your reality. Over the years we corresponded with each other and I discovered that Mother Ortquist genuinely cared about others. She saw value in others, even when others were slow to see it in themselves. She took her calling as a Christian seriously and sought to be an instrument of God’s grace. She redeemed the times
    by helping as many people as she could. She loved deeply and courageously and has left an indelible impression upon my life of what it means to live as a servant-leader, living in Christ.
    I am glad and grateful that I had the opportunity to know her, to love her and to be loved by her. My life is richer because of Mother Ortquist. She had this way of touching the hearts of those who crossed her path and leaving pieces of herself with each person. I strongly believe that Missy, Meri, Eric Sr., Evan; Brenda and Brynne, are blessed to have had the most loving and most remarkable mother in the world. Glad to be a recipient of Mother Ortquist’s ardent love. Hoping I can finish the race as well and as graciously as she did. I will miss immensely.

    Michael J. Love,

  5. Evan Ortquist says:

    I remember a pool full of 30 or more kids at 50 Ferry st with mom as the life guard.
    A house full of kids for youth groups and dance parties.
    The best choirs ever with Mom playin the piano Larry Brock, Micheal Faison, Micheal McNair, Walter Williams, Patty Powell, Beverly Lucas, Sherry, Rita, and Albert Hill, June Post, Sharon Booth and The six of us Ortquist kids so many others, singing Without God or I want to be ready, I heard the voice and The blood that Jesus shed for me.
    I remember singing, praise God from whom all blessings flow With Dad and Mom leading us six kids and whoever was joining us, In four part harmony before many dinners around the huge yellow table connected to the wall in the kitchen with bar stools that spun all around.
    I remember Moms Lasagna with sausage and beef lots of mozzarella and ricotta cheese, always with buttery garlic bread. It was sooo goood even better the next day but usually it was gone in a few minute with six kids and a guest or two.

  6. Eric Ortquist says:

    I think I got my love of music from my parents, but mostly my mom. I remember her telling me her favorite piece of classical music was Mendelssohn’s Violin Concerto in E flat. It became one of my favorites also. Mom taught herself how to play the guitar and the Autoharp I remember. She had an eclectic love of music, but inspirational hymns and songs that told of the glories of God and salvation were probably her favorites. I remember her telling us the story of how she and Dad met and became a couple during a College Choir bus ride where they were singing Handel’s Messiah. Mom had a love of nature and a respect for God’s creation. She always seem to find time to plant a garden and had many houseplants as well. Vegetables, flowers, strawberries, you name it, she could grow it. She was a true Renaissance woman. I remember her drawing a portrait of our dog, Edelweiss, with pastel crayons, and she was always refinishing furniture or making a hook and loop rug hanging, or some other arts and crafts type project. I almost forgot the hobo clown with the balloons tied around his toe. It hung in me and Evans bedroom for many years. That, she made out of pieces of fabric stitched together. It seemed there was nothing she couldn’t do once she put her mind to it, from getting her Masters by going to summer school for more Summers than I can remember to getting her drivers license and her first car all while raising 6 kids and holding down a full-time job teaching. Not to mention her weekend obligations as organist and Sunday school teacher and choir director at our church on Ferry Street. What an amazing woman and what an awesome mom! Thank you for being the sweetest kindest most incredible person I’ve ever known and my mom! And what a blessing to have married my mom’s best student, Beverly Lucas! I’ll love you forever mom. Can’t wait to get the choir back together someday!

  7. Joanie Spiconardi says:

    Dear Ortquist Family,
    I extend my deepest condolences over your loss. I have such fond memories of Mrs. Ortquist from Sunday school classes at the Reformed Church of Beacon. I always enjoyed listening to her play the piano. She had such a wonderful way of making me and everyone around her feel welcome. She always greeted me with a smile and such kindness. I was fortunate to have her as my Home Ec teacher in high school, too. Because of her, I learned how to sew and developed a love for decorating through sewing. I will always appreciate what I learned from her. She was a lovely person. Even though I haven’t seen her in years, I will miss her. May she Rest In Peace.

    My deepest sympathy,
    Joanie (Phillips) Spiconardi

  8. Michael Robinson says:

    This was a blog of mine done on New Years Day four years ago. Its STAR has recently passed into the heavenly heights – and yet waks amongst us still, perhaps more than ever now, as our Hunna Bunna Angel, Jan Ortquist. What a privilege to have called her my precious friend.

  9. Diana Nicole Mckenzie-Mayo says:

    I loved Ms. Ortquist , she was such a kind and caring teacher and neighbor. It was so nice seeing her around town and despite having Alzheimer’s she was still happy and smiling ! She was the BEST of Beacon.
    God Bless the family.
    Nicole Mckenzie-Mayo


    Mom sure enjoyed this Mansion on 17 Church Street in Beacon, also known to be the First General Hospital of Beacon. Not many know how it came to be that she lived here. She PRAYED in this house long before the owner sold it to her. In fact, she prayed here often with Elizabeth Alden (1897 – 1993) and a small group of faithful believers in the power of prayer. In 1984, Elizabeth family decided that at 86, she could no longer take care of this very large home. They made plans to move her to an assisted living facility in New Hampshire. One evening, mom and I and my one year old son, Daniel, drove by the house one more time to just look at the place and dream. It was then that we heard an amazing song come over the radio just as we passed by the house. The windows in the tower of the house were lit up from the lights within the rooms. We both heard it at the same time and felt a deep confirmation that mom should make an offer on this house after hearing the lyrics to a song that we never heard before. ‘The light in the tower leads me home.’ I have never heard that song again either. WELL, that was it. It just so happened that there were people in town who did not believe my mom could afford to buy this house on a teacher’s income and were advising Elizabeth Alden NOT to sell it to her. But, Elizabeth felt in her heart of hearts that God was telling her otherwise. She offered the house to my mom. The rest is history. Because of her frugal lifestyle and belief in Biblical financial principles, mom paid this house off in full in a very short time. She called her home ‘Beth Haggan’ which means ‘House of the Garden’ in Hebrew. If you ever visited, you know the first thing she wanted to do was walk you through her garden. Many of us took turns living with mom over the years: brother Eric with wife Beverly and their kids, other siblings in the midst of divorce or hardship, grandchildren who were in need at times. Two of my boys were born in this house. Mom’s dad, Grandpa Kinney, lived out the last four years of his life here. As another answer to mom’s prayers, after 11 years away, our beloved Dad, returned to us on July 1st 1989 and lived out his last 11 years here. (The years that had been stolen were returned) He took his last breath in the living room on June 24.2000. When mom was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s Disease in 2006, we all promised her we would keep her home. And we did just that.

  11. Merideth Geers says:

    The Handsome Stranger
    It was a beautiful day to go dump diving in the Spring of 1974. Mom always loved Tuesdays for a quick fabric foraging trip to the dump in Beacon because it was on those days that one of the textile companies in the area would unload a heaping pile of fabric scraps. Mom would watch the weather to make sure she got there before it rained. After laundering them, she would often bring her fabric treasure pieces to her Home Economics classes at Beacon High School for students in need of fabric for class sewing projects.
    This was one particularly sunny Spring Tuesday that was a bit unusual though. You see, Mom was also the organist/choir director at our church and had a particular project in mind for the fabric she intended to search for that day. The church needed choir robes and table cloths. Some of us truly doubted she would find fabric enough for these projects since she usually was only able to come away with small pieces of gaberdine or bits of lightweight acrylic scarf material. She would typically have to carefully cut around the lot numbers at the ends of the rolls for them to be of any use. So, of course, Mom prayed for a good haul and then she went a step further and prayed specifically for a durable white fabric. She proceeded to round up several somewhat reluctant helpers. My older sibling and I were two of her recruits on this particular day. I wish I could remember who the student was. Whoever you are, if you are reading this and remember this story please step forward. Anyway, off we went like a herd of turtles for our dump diving expedition!
    We arrived at the big crater of a dump and parked at the edge with Mom’s green Ford XL and descended on foot down the access road into the pit. We headed toward the center where the largest mounds of fresh, clean fabric were deposited. Soon after arriving at the heaps of fabric, we spotted something unusual and could not believe our eyes. There under the first layer of scraps was the fattest full ROLL of pure white heavy fabric! No denying this was an answer to prayer. We had never seen perfectly good full rolls of fabric discarded like this. Mom was absolutely thrilled and squealed with excitement! It would be perfect material for the choir robes and table cloths! We stared in wide-eyed amazement and joined in her rejoicing. Unfortunately, our shouts of delight were short lived and soon turned to groans as we tried our best to move/lift this humongous roll of fabric. We did not want to risk ruining it by rolling it along the ground. The four of us could not budge or lift it, let alone carry it what seemed to be easily half the length of a football field. Even if we could lift it, we would have to carry it up hill on the access road to where her car was parked since cars were not allowed down in the dump. This roll of fabric had to be at least five and a half feet long and two feet around. What were we to do? It was about this time I noticed a person at the far opposite end standing on the rim of the dump watching us struggle with the roll of fabric. He was easy to see because he was dressed in white. Before too long, he walked directly up to us. He was very, very handsome. My teenage self was smitten by his olive skin tones and pitch-black hair. He was not particularly tall, about my height. He looked to be about my age as well. I recall thinking he must have recently arrived from some exotic island somewhere since he never spoke a word and I suspected that perhaps he was not yet comfortable with speaking English. Then he did a remarkable thing as he simply bent over and hoisted that roll of fabric up and onto his shoulder in one easy, fluid motion. He then carried it the entire distance out of that dump, up that access road and straight to my mom’s car ALONE. He did not ask for help nor did he need it. He did not struggle or even seem to break a sweat. We got to Mom’s car and opened the trunk so he could set it down angling it sideways since it would not fit any other way. The four of us were preoccupied with adjusting it in the trunk and when we turned around to thank this handsome stranger, we found he was already gone. Oh, and did I mention he was dressed in dazzling white pants and shirt? Who does that…? goes to the dump wearing white clothes? Yep. True story. There was enough fabric to make at least a dozen table cloths and however many choir robes she needed. Mom sent me some of the left-over fabric years ago so I could make birthday flags for my boys. I still have the fabric, but never got around to making the flags since the boys disassembled my sewing machine quite permanently. I had good intentions though. Anyway, it’s not every day you have an encounter with an angel in a city dump. Who would ever believe that’s where one would show up? Expect the unexpected. Expect a miracle. I, for one, am not surprised that there was one keeping an eye on my Mom and looking out for her. So thankful for the memory.
    ‘Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.’
    Hebrews 13:2, KJV

  12. Brynne Love says:

    From Brynie Madeline Cooper:

    Brynne. I just saw the message about your mom. I’m so sorry to hear she has passed. I was at her house the 15 of December. It was a lovely day and I wanted to say hi. I dont go to Beacon very much. I’m so upset I didn’t get a chance to sit and talk with her again. She was one of the few good things in my life during a really hard time. I remember talking with her about so many things. She was so kind. She was also one of the reasons I was able to find myself when I was so lost. I would go to the old house to see her and if she wasnt home, I’d sit by the side of the church until I felt better. I will always remember her ,her great smile and the hope and strength she gave me.

  13. Merideth Geers says:

    Grab your coffee (Long Read)

    Since the Celebration of my Mother’s Life has been postponed until this crazy pandemic subsides, bear with me as I memorialize her here.

    A Refuge in Times of Trouble

    After four years in Brooklyn as pastor of the South Bushwick Reformed Church, Dad, Milton R. Ortquist, and Mom, Janet M. Ortquist, packed up their tribe of six kids age 1 to 8 and headed North to Beacon, NY. (Yes, we were a tribe long before the politically “incorrect” meaning of the term). It was the summer of 1966 and the Civil Rights movement was in full swing with Martin Luther King Jr speeches, marches for equality and fair housing. President L. B. Johnson was committing to send another 100,000 troops to Vietnam to join the 275,000 already sent over the year before as the long war continued.

    Dad and Mom were very much aware of the social unrest in the nation. As kids, (I was the second eldest at age 7 in 1966), we were too young and oblivious to the war and the civil rights issues of the times, at least for a while. You see, Dad and Mom had the idea that if we could all just live together, grow up together, the next generation would come to know and love people regardless of the color of their skin. Dad and Martin Luther King Jr. were both born in 1929.
    At the age of 9, I distinctly recall my mother, sitting in front of our black and white television with the rabbit ear antennas, sobbing inconsolably in our family room. It was either in the early evening of April 4th or morning of April 5th, 1968. I asked my mother why she was crying and she could hardly get out the words “A very great man has died.” I will never forget that day. The news was reporting on the assassination of Martin Luther King, Jr.

    The Arrival
    The drive from 15 Himrod Street in Brooklyn to Beacon was about an hour and 30 minutes up the Hudson. Ferry Street was amazing with beautiful Victorian homes all the way from Bank Square to the Hudson River. Upon arrival, the first place we stopped was the home of IBM Manager, and past president of the Beacon School Board, Mortimer H. Brockway, on Rombout Ave. He was also an Elder at the Beacon Reformed Church. From his driveway we could see an incredible Victorian house that we later learned was the Kittredge House as it was named for the doctor who lived there at one time. It was just to the left (South) of the Beacon Reformed Church. Mom truly thought this was the parsonage and our new home. But it wasn’t.

    The house on the North side of the Beacon Reformed Church was 50 Ferry Street. It was kind of boxlike and certainly wasn’t as Victorian or glamorous as the Kittredge House but it is where our Beacon story began.

    The Early Days

    As newcomers to the neighborhood, we made our way forging friendships and connecting with the local kids over that first summer. I am certain that there was some confusion as this white family moved into the neighborhood. All we knew was that this was our home and where we belonged. There were a few petty skirmishes, but Mom would lock us out of the house and tell us to figure out how to get along. With the innocence of youth, we made friends quickly and to this day we cherish the friends we made in those days. I will never forget my first dear friend, Parnell Corbett (God rest her soul).

    I started third grade at South Avenue School that Fall. There was one particularly memorable event in that first year. Late one evening, after we were all sent up to our beds for the night, Mom heard an unusual thud at the front door. Confused as to what it could be, she quickly proceeded to the door to investigate. To her utter surprise, as she opened the door, she saw the source of the sound. A man had fallen against the door and lay there barely conscious with a knife sticking out of his back! He came to the right place. Mom carefully dragged him into the house. Avoiding further injury with the protruding knife, she hoisted him up onto an old day bed/couch in the family room where he continued to lose a tremendous amount of blood. She immediately called for an ambulance and for my Dad to come home from a meeting. The ambulance arrived and he was taken away to the hospital. The next day, word spread quickly throughout the neighborhood and our house became rather morbidly popular as we showed off the bloodied couch to the parade of neighborhood kids that kept coming just to gawk at the blood-stains and to hear us somewhat proudly describe our Momma’s brave life-saving efforts. We were happy to learn that the man survived his injuries. Word of Mom and Dad’s honest caring for our community was getting around.

    Over the years, Mom and Dad facilitated a healthy open-door policy. Our house at 50 Ferry Street became The Gathering Place. It was also a place of refuge for so many. No one was ever turned away. On school days, Dad filled his Ford van with as many school-age kids as he could fit into it. He became the neighborhood “bus” driver for us and all the kids in our neighborhood because the walk to the Rombout Junior H.S. and Beacon H.S. was rather long on those cold winter days.

    Dad also installed an industrial-sized milk dispenser in the kitchen. Once a week we would get a delivery of three five-gallon jugs of milk for that dispenser. Fifteen gallons a week didn’t seem to last long at our house. The milk flowed freely for anyone any time.

    The neighbors must have thought we were wealthy people when a big pool was installed in our back yard. Dad was always in support of a community pool but the funding was not there for it in those days. It was only when a fairly wealthy church member who was an airline pilot, Andrew Ross and his wife, June, donated a pool for the backyard at 50 Ferry Street. It became the community pool. We had three different swimming times every day over the hot summer months with Mom, Dad or me lifeguarding. Everyone would be checked for impetigo before getting in the pool. Eddie Williams, the BHS football star, learned how to eat some humble pie after I easily beat him in a swimming race one very fine day.

    When Dad was the Director of the Youth Drug Abuse (YDA)Taskforce in Beacon, Tony B. and Joann C. came to live with us. Mom would drive them from Beacon to the Methadone Clinic in Poughkeepsie every other day. We knew not to touch the orange liquid in the little dispenser cups that were kept in the refrigerator over the weekend as these were their weekend doses. Then there was a girl who was deaf/mute who lived with us for a while. She was interesting. Later, in our teens, Wendy came to live with us a few different times. Mom helped her get a waitressing job to keep her off the streets, away from pimps and needles. Sadly, Wendy died of AIDS in early 1990s. Then there was the strange homeless teenage boy that Dad found at one of the Sloop festivals. He lived in the attic for several months until we found the model of “The Invisible Woman” hidden in his room. That one creeped us girls out just a bit!! The teenage single mom, Sandy, and her beautiful baby girl with nowhere to live needed to finish her last year of high school at B.H.S. Mom welcomed her into our home until she secured Section VIII housing. She was nervous about living with us at first, but not for long as she learned people are people. Gena P. came to live with us as well and shared her own story on fb of how Mom suggested she move in with us to be able to finish her last year at B.H.S. when her family moved out of the area.

    There was always music in my mother’s house. There was always a cantata to get ready for or a choir practice. Many in our neighborhood still remember the Magic Penny song my Mama taught them. ‘ Love is something if you give it away. It’s just like a magic penny, hold it tight and you won’t have any. Lend it spend it and you’ll have so many, they’ll roll all over the floor for…. Love is something if you give it away. You’ll end up having more.’

    Michael Faison could often be found at our piano playing and singing his heart out…“It was just my imagination, running away with me…” Michael has since traveled all over the world bringing the joy of his music to all venues including nursing homes, live feed on fb, cruise ships and even as far as Dubai.

    Our neighbors reciprocated with demonstrations of love in many ways too. In 1973, I experienced a very traumatic knee injury requiring a full length cast for many weeks. I was out of school for at least two weeks initially. Our dear neighbor, Mrs. Ruth Brock, would bravely come over every morning with a warm breakfast of eggs, toast and always a bottle of Welch’s Grape Juice. I say bravely because she was a little more than intimidated by our lovable family Weimaraner dog, Edelweiss. Miss Ruth’s kindness will never be forgotten. I cannot drink Welch’s grape juice without thinking of her to this day.

    As the years went by, the social activities evolved too. There were youth club weekend retreats. Mom and Dad would pack up to 25 kids and enough groceries in a caravan for a long weekend or even a full week and head to the Tri Parish Retreat Center or Warwick Conference Center. Nearly every Friday night we hosted DJ and Dance nights that were wildly popular in the 70’s. If memory serves me well it seemed there would be 75 to 100 kids packed in for a Friday night dance party. There was the Lighthouse Coffee House that welcomed everyone who wanted to go deeper into matters of the heart of the Christian Faith and sharing their personal walk with God. Later, on Mom worked with battered women and would open her home as a “Safe House” to young ladies in need. Each one of the individuals mentioned or described could easily be a “story” in and of itself. There were so many lives that were impacted by generosity, hospitality, love and the faith that was lived out at our first home in Beacon at 50 Ferry Street from 1966 to 1984.
    I believe my parents succeeded with imparting one of the most valuable lessons in life. It was based on two simple yet profound Biblical Principles and Commandments: Loving God and loving your neighbor as you would yourself.
    Matthew 22
    36] Master, which is the great commandment in the law?
    [37] Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.
    [38] This is the first and great commandment.
    [39] And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself.
    [40] On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.

  14. Merideth Geers says:

    She Loves Me Like a Rock
    Mom’s kitchen, hmm, where could one possibly begin? The source of the fondest of memories and fun played out in this room, the heart of our home. We had a blast around that huge, bright yellow, custom-made, Formica kitchen table. It had to be custom-made for our family of eight, plus extras, if we all wanted to enjoy a meal together. When we weren’t playing “table top football” with our little home-made folded paper triangles, we were singing or enjoying another spontaneous drumming session eruption that would go on and on and on as we used our hands or wooden spoons to create raucous rhythms and table top drum beats while mom prepared yet another exotic meal. She always tried out her newest recipe experiments on us before incorporating them into her Beacon High School Home Economics cooking classes or International Foods courses. I am grateful for all the culinary lessons that I was able to absorb just by hanging out in that kitchen watching Mom cook. To name a few: Egg Foo Yung, Lasagna, Clam Bisque, Pasta Fagioli, Sausage Supreme Casserole, Hot German Potato Salad, Fried Tomatoes, and of course, her famous from scratch Cinnamon Rolls. I am so thankful that I took the time to really learn that recipe since the requests to keep the tradition going on for the next generation have been trickling in from some of my family for lessons on the finer points of making/baking this delectable family heirloom recipe. We all know food is a such a tangible and sacrificial means of demonstrating love. Yes, food is sustenance for our bodies but it is also nourishment for the soul. Mom was always ready with a yummy pot of love to dish out to anyone.
    On occasion, Mom would receive a care package in the mail from her mom, our Grandmother, Clara Kinney. In the summer of 1973, my fourteenth year, one of these care packages arrived at our door as we were all gathered around that yellow table with many of our neighborhood friends. There were so many kids in that kitchen with every stool occupied and standing room only. Well, it was a whopper of a box and was certain to be filled with carefully packed items, cushioned with wads of newspaper. Mom was in another of her fun-loving, goofy, bubbly moods as she excitedly prepared to open that box from her Momma. Who doesn’t like getting a care package from their mom, right? We all gathered around the table to watch as she grabbed a kitchen knife to cut through the tape and then began to dig into it to reveal the contents for all to see. She did it with a flair though. As she reached into the box, she broke into song and before long the whole room full of kids was joining in with the popular tune of the day. With every item she lifted out, she sang the chorus to Paul Simon’s newest hit song, “Loves Me Like a Rock”. It was a real production, I tell ya! She would lift out those re-purposed coffee cans one at a time and the whole room would erupt with the refrain:
    “Oh my mama loves, she loves me, Whoa she loves me like a rock.
    She loves me, loves me, loves me, loves me. Loves me like a rock…
    She rocks me like the Rock of Ages, she loves me.”

    The myriad of labeled coffee cans filled with all sorts of cookies and snacks were finally all on the table. Various additional items continued to emerge one at a time with each being followed by the chorus of Mom and all of us singing, “Whoa, she loves me like a Rock!”. Didn’t matter if it was socks or dish towels, the guffaws and giggles rang out. It was such good, clean fun and Mom was the ringleader. Finally, the last item from the bottom of the box was lifted out. Mom was in singing in full voice, when, SURPRISE!!, out comes a big box of KOTEX sanitary napkins! Everything came to a screeching halt. The singing stopped mid-verse as everyone stared for that very brief moment in time. We could certainly relate to that proverbial pin hitting the floor. Mom simply said “whoops” and quickly replaced the Kotex back in the box. After about six seconds of complete silence, the hilarity of the scene took over and we were all practically rolling on the floor with belly busting laughter. The teenage girls in the room (myself included) could not hide our rosy-cheeked embarrassment as we laughed along with everyone. Makes me chuckle even today.

    Reflecting on the meaning behind words and lyrics to this song, what was Paul Simon trying to say with those lyrics? He was obviously a referring to a mother’s love among other things. But more than that, he was comparing a mother’s love to The Rock of Ages. Now that’s something! As a mother myself, I know I would be willing to lay down my life for my sons. So, there you have it. In contrast, my Mom taught me and anyone that would listen of how God, in His great love and mercy sent HIS only Son to die in my place – the One who really did lay His life down for us all out of his love for us. His name – Jesus Christ. There is no greater love. On Christ the solid ROCK I stand. Thanks, Mom, for ALL of the lessons.

  15. Ricardo Sheppard says:

    Hello and my deepest condolences at the passing of your mother. I Can truly say that I am the man that I am because of your parents. Although your father Rev. Ortquist played the largest role in that change, he always spoke of your mother and I had the opportunity to meet her once or twice. You see I am a graduate of Downstate Correctional Facility, where my life was changed and resurrected. I am happy to say that many of us who were there during the time Rev. Ortquist served are all doing well and grateful to God for your families love of God and unwavering love of others. May God bless you and comfort you during this time.
    Rev. Ricardo Sheppard
    Atonement Episcopal Church
    Washington DC

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